What It’s Like to Be Married, Monogamous, and Bisexual

I hid from myself for years. Now, I’m ready to be honest.

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Earlier this year, I finally admitted something I’ve ignored for a very long time. I started to notice it in high school, where I felt a deep discomfort when I looked at other women. At first, I thought it was jealousy. I thought I wanted to look like those women or have their…