My family was literally abusive and drugged me at the age of four to get me to shut up and sleep. Gave a 4 year old Ambien, and then expect me to kiss their ass for feeding me for 18 years when they didn’t even do that. When I finally had a kid of my own I realized that I didn’t want a bunch of selfish, hypocritical child abusers in my life or my kids and cut them out. The amount of shit I get for that, a whole year later is insane. People constantly tell me what a horrible, ungrateful daughter I am and one day my kid will do the same to me and I’ll go crawling back to my family with my tail between my legs. I get where you’re coming from, some of us just didn’t get the picture perfect family and there’s nothing wrong with not liking your family.